Justin Delgado is husband to Kacie Doyle-Delgado, diagnosed at age 11. After more than a decade together, he considers himself to be an expert carb counter and Dexcom inserter. He graduated with his Master of Science in Finance from the University of Utah in 2013 and has been working in commercial banking since then. He attended his first Friends for Life conference in 2015 and is looking forward to volunteering with the teens.
October 24, 2001
Question from Woodstock, New York, USA:
My 18 year old boyfriend has had diabetes for a decade, and after his mother died of cancer, he spiraled into self-destruction with glucose readings all over the map. Years have passed since that incident, and he still drinks and smokes both cigarettes and marijuana. Last week he almost went under when he had a reading of 30 mg/dl [1.7 mmol/L], and later that night he was almost at 600 mg/dl [33.3 mmol/L]. He's trying to get himself under control, but, like with any chronic illness, he has difficulty with it. His feet are starting to peel, he's seeing floaters in his vision, and his kidneys hurt. Despite all this, he just can't get it under control. Honestly, with the irreparable damage done, has his life expectancy been shortened? It breaks my heart, but I need to know if this is the beginning of the end and what I can do because this tearing me apart too.
This is a serious situation which cannot be answered over the Internet; it needs therapeutic intervention by a psychologist who has a broad understanding of diabetes and grief counseling. The situation is urgent.